Is
there really a need to strengthen communication? With the power of
the internet, social networking, emailing, cell phone technology, and
text messaging, we have virtually any connection we want clearly at our
disposal.
Yet, while technology makes it
convenient and instantaneous, do those communications truly deepen
our understanding, enrich relationships, increase authenticity,
and bring us closer together? Has the quality of our conversation
improved? Do we really know one another better?
Our essential needs remain unchanged –
needs for safe, honest relationships that communicate truth, care,
understanding, and faith in a world that seems to show no end to
prejudice, aggression, and mistrust. If we ever think the end’s in
sight, we need only turn on the television news.
No. Technological advancements may
help, but they’re no substitute for meaningful, face-to-face
relationships. Gadgets can't offer improved communication skill.
We are still required to think before we speak, and listen before we
respond if we want high fidelity relationships and strong connections
that count.
Real communication requires us to SLOW DOWN. It occurs, or is enhanced
when we know who we are, and we have a genuine desire to know
someone else better. It seems regrettable this usually requires something
like a funeral, or some event where we realize we are mortal and life is
finite. Then it triggers the questions, "What does it really matter, and
what matters most?"
